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When we have sex after smoking, there's definitely more of an observational quality to it.I'm kind of outside myself, observing, instead of in it and in my head. And afterward, I feel like I'm more open to talking about something that happened or something that I liked.When I smoke, I like who I am a little bit more, and I'm able to express myself better." – Kristin, start-up founder, NYC The Third Wheel "I was dating this guy who was otherwise very sweet and wonderful, but there was an addiction issue.He couldn't go to parties without knowing at what point in the night he'd get to go back to his place, or go somewhere else, and smoke.My boyfriend is an engineer for a tech start-up, and I run my own business as a web designer.We both attribute the amount of weed we smoke — we light up almost every day — to the fact that our jobs are so highly technical. If you're a functional pothead, you don't have to think twice about it." – Emily, 28, web designer, San Francisco, CA The Post-Alcohol Smoker "My boyfriend is pretty much the only person I smoke with..home, at night, or on weekends during the day.Alcohol for me is definitely a depressive experience.
He's totally out of it and quiet, and his breath and saliva taste really different and not appealing.
It really doesn't work for me to be out at a restaurant or have plans to go see a play later and for him to say 'I can't because I have to go smoke.' That necessity was totally disruptive. I bounced around on different medications to try to fix that, and nothing really helped until I tried smoking. I had a boyfriend with a very low sex drive, and it was too much for him. He's a musician, and cannabis and music often go hand in hand. All his friends come over and try the vaporizers, giving real-time feedback.
It was like having a third person in the relationship. Now, I am an everyday weed smoker, and I do think it helps my depression..my relationship with my boyfriend. The way dating is today, the girl can be the aggressive one, going after the guy.
I think I liked him better high — he was less edgy. Even though weed is legal in Colorado, you can't smoke in restaurants or some other public places, so it usually happens at someone's house.
My friends always said having sex while high on weed was so good that you shouldn't do it, because you wouldn't enjoy sober sex as much. High sex makes your mind and body more sensitive to pleasure, and in comparison to drunk sex, it's less...aggressive?
He has this one friend he's always smoking weed with, and I think that's also what bums me out most.