Christian dating or courting
In order to fully answer this question, we must consider physical attraction from both a male and female perspective, while also considering It seems to go without saying that men, generally speaking, are initially drawn to a woman based on whether or not he finds her physically attractive.
Specifically, we are told (and shown) over and over that true physical beauty is found primarily in a particular body shape or hair color or facial structure.But when we have a clear view of what we truly deserve—an eternity enduring God’s righteous judgment against our sin—that simple, godly girl we’ve known for the past couple years begins to appear very attractive, almost irresistible.A man be attracted to the woman he is pursuing, but pride will often keep many a man from appreciating the beauty of the women already in his midst. To the godly man, the beauty of a woman’s holiness will actually enhance her physical beauty in his eyes (Prov ; Rom ; 1 Peter 3:4).A Wrong Understanding of “Attraction.” Contrary to popular Hollywood portrayals of romance and relationships, genuine attraction does not necessarily consist in an experience of “love at first sight” or unearthly feelings of romantic transport.I’ve counseled men who’ve been concerned about whether or not they are truly attracted to their girlfriend because their initial meeting didn’t result in intense feelings of desire and visions of destiny.
Pride blinds the eyes and skews the judgment (Ps 25:9; James 4:6), .